From a Christian prospective, can you still be a virgin if you frequently perform ?

As far as I know the Bible never mentions oral . I know some consider it to be sodomy, but there's no Scriptural support for that. However, there are other reasons why your friend is hypocritical. There is more to being Christian and being "pure" than simply not having . The crazy parties, binge drinking, multiple partners - none of this really shows a commitment to behaving in a Godly way. She has nothing to boast about.