Hi i have problem with boys i talk too rough and straight forward i talk like grandma no boys like or run awa?

when i was in college no one proposed me or be friend with me .like wat i do no to act wat other girls do like cry loud for roaches laugh for simple reason smile or give signal to boys for no reason once a guy followed me and i scolded him in public.he says that noone will turn towards u.i thought in mind that my husband will like me u are nothing to me but the same happens with my hus he feels i am boring when chatting wit me he chat with someone .avoid my presence go to his friends house and enjoy .if i am angry on him for his mistake he never responds i will be the one to talk first .he does everything to me but dont like to talk with me other than family matter .i feel very lonely what should i do to make myself interesting to my husband.